“Deen Life” Coaching

Men and women face distinct challenges when it comes
to coaching services.

1. "Deen Life" Coaching can help tremendously.

As a Muslim, your journey to complete your Deen is as unique as you are. Sometimes a little support can go a long way in helping you to attain that elusive balance you are seeking in your life, in your marriage, or in your quest to find a spouse.

“Deen Life” Coaching​

  • Do you find it difficult to find the balance between this Dunya and your Deen?
  • Are you finding the search to complete your Deen an emotional or spiritual struggle? 
  • Are you unsure if you are even ready for marriage?

2. CAREER COACHING

  • Men and women face distinct challenges when it comes to career planning. 
  • When is the right time to have children?
  • Should my wife continue to work? 
  • Will I lose my career if I take a break to focus on raising my children?
  • How many kids can we “afford”?
  • How can I be a HVM² and still be present at home for my wife and children?
All of these questions and many more are related to your income, which is a function of your career choices. I can work with both brothers and sisters to create an optimal career plan upon which you can build a solid financial plan for your family, insha’Allah.

Depending on how you structure your marriage and your economic situation, either you or your spouse might need career advice. Or, perhaps you are single, thinking about completing your Deen.

 Either way, how you manage your career has a direct and immediate impact on your ability to marry and the success or failure of your marriage. In this context, making informed short- and long-term career decisions is crucial to your marriage and financial well-being.

 If you need career coaching or development, Men of Deen has over 15 years of international executive career coaching across multiple industries.

3. STYLE AND IMAGES

As technology has us more “connected” online, men and women are meeting less and less in the real world. And with the divisions that occur between the sexes Islamically, it is not easy or intuitive to know how to present yourself to the opposite gender. Presentation includes your social media presence, which is also part of the image consulting.

With a background in marketing and 17 years of experience working with global elite fashion brands, as well as hosting fashion mixers, I know a thing or two about how to put your best foot forward. And having gone through the Islamic courting and marriage process, I
understand how presentation is important to both sides: fitness, fashion, fragrance, and footwear matter.

Increasingly, our image in the real world equals our digital footprint. The moment your potential match finds you, you will be “Googled.” So, your social media footprint can either make or break your chances at finding your spouse. MOD can work with you to make sure your digital footprints work for you, not against you.

4. PRE MARRIAGE GUIDEANCE AND EDUCATION

One of the keys to any successful relationship, whether it be with your spouse, best friend or business partner, is expectation management; making sure that you know what to expect from your spouse and they know what to expect from you.

Islamically, this means both the husband and wife must have a clear understanding of their role, rights and responsibilities in the marriage. In fact, a misunderstanding and misalignment of these is a leading reason for divorce within the Ummah.

Depending on how you structure your marriage and your economic situation, either you and/or your spouse might need career advice. Or, perhaps you are single, thinking about completing your Deen.

To mitigate this risk, any prospective Men of Deen couple must complete an 8-hour course on Islamic marriage and divorce immediately following a successful first meeting.

In addition to this course, the final step before Nikah is a premarital coaching session with one of our Licensed Marriage and Family therapists to ensure that the new couple has a clear understanding of what they expect of their other as husband and wife.

5. POST MARRIAGE SUPPORT

 When you first get married, some couples experience an initial “honeymoon phase” where everything seems perfect, followed by a season of challenges. Other couples experience immediate challenges as you attempt to build together. Other times, the arrival of children or in-laws can cause the ride to get rough. No matter when these challenges come, Men of Deen wants to be there.

To this end, your relationship with your initial marriage and family therapist is one that will be available for you throughout your marriage, whenever the need for support arises, insha’Allah.

7. PORN ADDICTION EDUCATION

Gentlemen (and ladies)… Let’s talk! It is hard to be a single, unmarried Muslim. I have been there, and I know. How the heck do you avoid Zinā when you are single!? For many of us, porn is the unfortunate answer.

I hope we can agree that porn is not a healthy habit. Even more so for a productive and healthy marriage.

  • Are you addicted to porn?
  • Well, how often do you look at porn?
  • If you’re viewing porn regularly, you are probably addicted.
  • Our purpose here is for you to find your spouse, and in the process, become the greatest version of yourself.
  • The man or woman you want your sons to be, and your daughters to marry.
  • Being addicted to pornography, destroying your family from the inside, falls nowhere in this picture.

On top of all of this, porn is Haram.

As a Man of Deen, you are expected to be free of porn by the time you arrive at Nikah. I know it’s hard brothers, let’s do the work. We can coach you through this.